why no one listens to you
studies show 97% of what we communicate by phone is by vocal tone.
that means only 3% of your message is understood from the actual words.
voice coach karen lyu suggests: imagine you’re at a meeting, and you hear someone say “hello” with a nervous, giggly nasal voice — or a muffled, monotone mumble. what messages are you getting?
now imagine a radio announcer saying “hello” with a clear, warm and projected voice.
did you notice your body reacting in a different way? how did it make you feel?
so what are some simple things you can do right now improve your voice — and make people sit up and listen?
- 1. keep your throat and mouth relaxed (exercise by yawning or saying “wow” before a meeting)
- 2. speak clearly at medium speed
- 3. smile while you talk, and people will hear the difference (for phone conversations, a mirror nearby can help to remind yourself)
- 4. sit up at the edge of your seat to keep your body aligned (or stand and walk)
- 5. drink water or tea with lemon and honey (soda, alcohol, and coffee will dehydrate your throat)
these quick tips could help you to speak with a healthy, understandable, warm and resonant voice so that people stay focused and interested in what you have to say.
